Wednesday, October 15, 2008

To Each Their Own...


Past 6 months have been kinda hard on me emotionally. Life took a total 180 turn, started going south, and I'm still holding my breath.


I did realize one thing - no matter how many friends you have, no matter how close of a family you have, no matter how close anyone is with you, in the end, you are left suffering alone. Other people may or may not help you cope with it, but at the end of the day it is you yourself who will have to accept or deal with a situation you are facing.


It will also be amazing how other people will reveal themselves to you while you're still in crisis. It doesnt matter if you had been the nicest person to them before, but if you treat them any differently during your crisis they will still get offended. Who's fault is that really? Theirs - for not being understading? Or yours - for making them that way?


In any case, you WILL come out of your crisis, but when you look back and see how many people held your hand during that time, the number might turn out to be a lot less than you had expected. Becareful with your dealings with the ones who turned away. Forever cherish the ones who stuck by you.