To Each Their Own...
Past 6 months have been kinda hard on me emotionally. Life took a total 180 turn, started going south, and I'm still holding my breath.
I did realize one thing - no matter how many friends you have, no matter how close of a family you have, no matter how close anyone is with you, in the end, you are left suffering alone. Other people may or may not help you cope with it, but at the end of the day it is you yourself who will have to accept or deal with a situation you are facing.
It will also be amazing how other people will reveal themselves to you while you're still in crisis. It doesnt matter if you had been the nicest person to them before, but if you treat them any differently during your crisis they will still get offended. Who's fault is that really? Theirs - for not being understading? Or yours - for making them that way?
In any case, you WILL come out of your crisis, but when you look back and see how many people held your hand during that time, the number might turn out to be a lot less than you had expected. Becareful with your dealings with the ones who turned away. Forever cherish the ones who stuck by you.
posted by Sabeen @ 9:57 p.m.
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7 Comments:
I can relate to that...no matter how many people surrounds us, we are still alone... sad but it's true..
Humans come to this world alone and they go alone. Somewhere deep down we realize this, but this realization doesn't hit us until we're in a situation where we see this up close. One of life's many dilemmas: Humans are programmed to form interpersonal connections by default (though we're told to not get close to ppl), but when we act according to our natures, we get hurt. Who do you blame and where do you turn?
Loneliness itself is a teaching ground. It's one of the many places where friendships get tested, as we realize things about ourselves and our so-called friends. This reminds me of a sher:
Yeh accha hai keh aapas ke bharam na tootnay paayen
Kabhi bhi doston ko aazma kar kuch nahin milta
(I just realized how loyal a reader I've been of your blog. The only comment left on your entry "People Forget :( " was by me - two years ago! ). I'm seeing you grow intellectually and it's nice to be sharing life's ups and downs together.
your friends realize you on your way up.
you realize your friends on your way down.
however, dont u believe this article is a direct contradiction of your blog "FAILURE"
may be whenever u're alone, hurt n lonely, there is someone waiting for you to come up and open ur heart to.
may be u're just too blured out over the ONES WHO TURNED AWAY that u cant see the hands holding out to you.
and if there are truly none, then one must sit down and re-evaluate one's filter of friends, caz its surely dirty enough to let SH*T pass through.
but if there is even ONE, then u cant go wrong :)
She got one! So she can't go wrong.
Thank you for your comment.
Time for a new entry girl.
Buck up!
Yes please. New Post!
very true. it can be depressing but still its a good lesson about how pple turn their back on you. well thats what i used to think then it ocurred to me...do i really blame the ones who never ended up holding my hand thru my crisis...cause they have a life and possibly little personal crisis of their own going on...and also, others don't know what it feels like till they suffer (God Forbid) and their eyes are opened...thinking that way you can forgive the ones who never held you hand...and no you're not alone cause God never leaves your hand.
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